.A grown-up with a chaotic accessory design, in some cases pertained to as anxious-avoidant attachment design, battles to rely on folks. Typically in relationships, their behavior is inconsistent and chaotic. Usually, this attachment type creates when one's major caretaker is both a source of love and anxiety throughout their childhood. In adulthood, Viviana discovered herself mimicing her mommy's hot-and-cold behavior in her own enchanting connections. "I'll be really into somebody and also when they're actually into me, I'm like, 'Okay, you require to go away, satisfy,'" she says. "The minute they go away, I resemble, 'Hang around, feel free to returned. Affection me.' And after that I'll carry out everything to maintain their attention. I see it along with my mom, as well. I wished to join her. But when I obtained close to her, that is actually when the belt will appear.".